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While
we all want the best for our children, we are all human and none of us are
perfect. The good news is that we
don’t have to be. Each of us is
capable of being a good mother or father.
Here are some ideas to help you discover your own unique and nurturing
parenting style.
 You don’t have to always have loving
feelings. The commitment you make towards raising
your child in a healthy manner is more important than how you might feel at
any time.
Having angry feelings towards your child is
natural. Having feelings and acting on them are two
different things.
Don’t worry about being the best all the
time. Be sure to take time for yourself.
Being a happy person is important to being
an effective parent. Get out and find
a baby sitter sometimes,
Your child will make mistakes. It is part of growing up. Sometimes we learn best by finding ways
not to do things.
Take care of yourself. Parenting is a demanding job. Keep yourself healthy both physically and
emotionally.
Deal with stress effectively. Learn to know when you need to
relax. Do things that you enjoy.
Don’t abuse drugs and alcohol. Escaping your problems never solves
them.
Don’t make a child the center of the
universe. Children are more secure and relaxed when
the world doesn’t revolve around them.
Maintain your relationship with your spouse. A happy family is built on happy
relationships.
Don’t “go it alone.” Keep friends and relatives in your
life.
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